167. Weighing Your Options: Do You Get Divorced Or Do You Stay In Your Marriage? (For Now)

When you’re stuck wondering if you should stay married or finally move forward with a divorce, the decision feels impossible. In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea and Morgan get real about how to weigh your options—emotionally and practically—so you can stop spinning in circles and start finding clarity.

They share a powerful acronym to help you evaluate your marriage, plus the exact logistical steps you should take if divorce might be on your horizon. From emotional check-ins to financial prep, you’ll walk away knowing what questions to ask and what to do next.

Questions answered in this episode:

• How do you know if it’s really your marriage—or just outside stress—making you unhappy?
• What is the TALK acronym and how can it help you evaluate your relationship?
• Why is therapy (with a professional, not a friend) a critical first step?
• What does “attunement” actually mean in a marriage, and why does it matter?
• How can laughter and levity show you the health of your relationship?
• Why do you need to understand the divorce process before making a decision?
• What financial steps should you take if you’re not sure whether to divorce?
• How does timing (holidays, business cycles, even illness) affect the right moment to file?
• What should you know about custody laws in your state before deciding?
• How do you know if you’re mentally strong enough to start the divorce process?

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