Tony Montana's Guide to Being a Dependo

First you get the soldier, then you get the Tricare, then you get the Charger! We all face the daunting battle of who has it harder. Does a SAH parrent or a working parent face more struggles? Women especially, will tear each other apart on a social media post over this topic. Well, we are not falling into that trap today, but unless you have been both, you really do not have a say. In the military world, we have a term for any unemployed spouse. You are either a dependo or a dependa. You cannot just be any unemployed spouse. There are certain characteristics you must have. We begin with a special dependo. Let us just call him loving E4.