Ten Parenting Patterns That May Prolong Your Child's Struggle with Substances, And What To Do Instead, with Brenda Zane

Parents sometimes fall into patterns that can unintentionally prolong their child's struggle with substance use. In this eye-opening solo episode, Brenda Zane reveals ten common parenting pitfalls that might be keeping your family stuck on the Roller Coaster Ride. I emphasize that recognizing these behaviors doesn't make someone a bad parent but rather, presents opportunities for growth and positive change.

In just 30 minutes, you'll discover practical strategies to shift your approach and create the conditions for positive change – without the guilt or shame. And many of them you can implement today!

Key points covered in the episode:

• The importance of self-care and not running on fumes
• Why shaming, blaming, or yelling is ineffective
• The need for consistent parenting approaches between partners
• Understanding addiction as a health issue, not a character flaw
• Moving beyond the "rock bottom" myth
• Avoiding information overload and lecturing
• Not engaging when your child is under the influence (and two other times)
• Recognizing when "it's just a phase" thinking is harmful
• The dangers of being a "fixer" and preventing natural consequences
• The benefits of seeking support and community instead of isolating

Join me for practical tips, resource recommendations, and encouragement. And don't miss the helpful PDF download in the show notes where you can dive deeper into each of the ten pitfalls and find links to resources.

EPISODE RESOURCES:

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