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Honey, We Need to Chat

Honey, We Need to Chat is the podcast for couples who want to fight less, connect more, and actually enjoy talking again.

We’re Amy and Blair, a real-life couple sharing honest conversations, relatable stories, and practical tools to help you navigate conflict, deepen communication, and build a relationship that feels good, not just looks good.

We dive into wild Reddit threads, expert interviews, real-life coaching, and hard-earned lessons, offering fresh insights and actionable steps you can use today! Because when communication dies, bad things happen. So... let’s chat!

Relationships Society & Culture
Update frequency
every 4 days
Average duration
39 minutes
Episodes
94
Years Active
2024 - 2025
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65. How to Raise Issues in a Relationship Without Arguing | Reddit Stories & Real Coaching Tools

65. How to Raise Issues in a Relationship Without Arguing | Reddit Stories & Real Coaching Tools

Your partner does something that bothers you… do you bring it up and risk an argument, or stay quiet and let it simmer? In this episode, we break down real Reddit relationship stories and give you pr…

00:52:10  |   Mon 15 Sep 2025
64: How to Stop Fighting With Your Partner: The One Skill That Changes Everything

64: How to Stop Fighting With Your Partner: The One Skill That Changes Everything

This isn’t just theory, it’s practical coaching you can apply in your next hard conversation.

Are you stuck in the same arguments with your partner? This episode of Honey, We Need to Chat reveals how …

00:30:19  |   Mon 08 Sep 2025
63. The Fatherhood Gap: How Supporting Dads Strengthens Families with Tom & Kate Docking

63. The Fatherhood Gap: How Supporting Dads Strengthens Families with Tom & Kate Docking

Becoming a parent can be an incredibly isolating experience, not just for mums, but for dads too. And yet, dads are often left out of the perinatal conversation. In this episode of Honey, We Need to …

00:53:51  |   Mon 01 Sep 2025
62. Would You Want to Be Married to Yourself? How Self-Awareness Changes Relationships

62. Would You Want to Be Married to Yourself? How Self-Awareness Changes Relationships

If you were married to yourself, would it be a healthy, life-giving relationship, or a hard one? In this Relationship Reset Mini Series- episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, Amy and Blair ask the confr…

00:43:07  |   Mon 25 Aug 2025
61. How to Make Relationship Goals REALLY Stick | Why Big Promises Fail & What Actually Works

61. How to Make Relationship Goals REALLY Stick | Why Big Promises Fail & What Actually Works

Ever made a New Year’s resolution, only to fall back into old habits by week two? The same thing happens in relationships, we set huge goals, dream of date nights every week, and promise big changes……

00:47:47  |   Mon 18 Aug 2025
60. How to Like Your Partner Again | Resetting the Culture of Your Relationship

60. How to Like Your Partner Again | Resetting the Culture of Your Relationship

Ever caught yourself thinking, “I just don’t like my partner right now”? You’re not alone, and it doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed.


In this episode we unpack why couples lose the “like” factor…

00:50:14  |   Mon 11 Aug 2025
59: How to Build Trust in Your Relationship Through Accountability & Integrity

59: How to Build Trust in Your Relationship Through Accountability & Integrity

Real love ONLY works when both people are owning their stuff.
If you’re tired of carrying the emotional load, walking on eggshells, or repeating the same arguments, this episode is for you.

In this raw…

00:47:52  |   Mon 04 Aug 2025
RE-RELEASE 3: Why Are So Many People Getting This Wrong? | Mental Load, Gaming Addictions & Shut-Down Partners

RE-RELEASE 3: Why Are So Many People Getting This Wrong? | Mental Load, Gaming Addictions & Shut-Down Partners

Welcome to our REWOUND RE-RELEASE Bonus Series. These are our TOP episodes ever, so we're bringing them back as bonus video episodes.

In one of our most-downloaded conversations, we dive into the hea…

01:15:00  |   Mon 28 Jul 2025
RE-RELEASE 2: Why Won’t You Talk to Me? | Understanding Stonewalling, Avoidance & Emotional Shutdowns in Relationships

RE-RELEASE 2: Why Won’t You Talk to Me? | Understanding Stonewalling, Avoidance & Emotional Shutdowns in Relationships

Welcome to our REWOUND RE-RELEASE Bonus Series. These are our TOP episodes ever, so we're bringing them back as bonus video episodes.


Does your partner shut down during conflict? Do conversations fee…

01:09:03  |   Mon 28 Jul 2025
RE-RELEASE 1: Thought I Was Helping! Why Strong Couples Still Miss the Mental Load

RE-RELEASE 1: Thought I Was Helping! Why Strong Couples Still Miss the Mental Load

Welcome to our REWOUND RE-RELEASE Bonus Series. These are our TOP episodes ever, so we're bringing them back as bonus video episodes.

Ever thought, "But I am helping!" — and still ended up in a fight…

00:55:56  |   Mon 28 Jul 2025
58: How to Future-Proof Your Relationship (Before the Cracks Break You)

58: How to Future-Proof Your Relationship (Before the Cracks Break You)

Struggling with miscommunication, built-up resentment, or avoided conversations in your relationship?

In this episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, Amy and Blair unpack what it really means to future-pro…

00:55:49  |   Mon 28 Jul 2025
57. Oops, That Came Out Wrong | Repairing Hurtful Comments in Relationships. Reddit Stories

57. Oops, That Came Out Wrong | Repairing Hurtful Comments in Relationships. Reddit Stories

Ever blurted something out and instantly regretted it? Whether it's sarcasm, body image comments, or unspoken assumptions, clumsy conversations happen in every relationship. In this episode of Honey,…

00:45:45  |   Mon 21 Jul 2025
56. Why Can't I Just Say It Right? How to Fix Clumsy Communication in Your Relationship

56. Why Can't I Just Say It Right? How to Fix Clumsy Communication in Your Relationship

Ever find yourself saying, "That's not what I meant!" after a conversation spirals out of control? Or maybe your partner’s words always seem to come out wrong, sparking frustration instead of connect…

00:42:20  |   Mon 14 Jul 2025
55. How to Navigate Painful Conversations in Relationships

55. How to Navigate Painful Conversations in Relationships

Struggling with blunt comments, sarcastic jabs, or misunderstood intentions in your relationship?

This episode of Honey, We Need to Chat cuts straight to practical tools and honest insights to decode …

00:49:27  |   Mon 07 Jul 2025
54: Mental Load from the Other Side: What the “Receiver” is Really Thinking | REDDIT STORIES

54: Mental Load from the Other Side: What the “Receiver” is Really Thinking | REDDIT STORIES

In this eye-opening episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, Amy and Blair dive deep into the other side of the mental load conversation, exploring what it might feel like to be the partner on the receivin…

00:45:23  |   Mon 30 Jun 2025
53. When Mental Load Leads to a Stand-Off | How to Move Forward When Your Partner Shuts Down

53. When Mental Load Leads to a Stand-Off | How to Move Forward When Your Partner Shuts Down

You finally brought up the mental load. You found the words. You mustered the courage. And then… nothing. Maybe they shut down. Maybe they pushed back. Maybe the conversation just fell flat.

In this p…

00:56:09  |   Mon 23 Jun 2025
52: The Silent Thing Ruining Your Relationship: Unbearable Feelings and What to Do About Them

52: The Silent Thing Ruining Your Relationship: Unbearable Feelings and What to Do About Them

What’s the feeling you can’t even name, let alone share?

In this episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we’re diving deep into the emotional undercurrents that silently shape our reactions, create disconn…

00:44:11  |   Mon 16 Jun 2025
51: Why You Keep Missing Each Other in Conflict (and How to Change It) with Sam & Liv Ramsden from Silly Stories for Kids

51: Why You Keep Missing Each Other in Conflict (and How to Change It) with Sam & Liv Ramsden from Silly Stories for Kids

Ever feel like you're speaking two different languages in your marriage? Or wonder why your partner shuts down when you bring something up?

We sat down with Sam and Liv Ramsden (aka Mr. & Mrs. Silly S…

01:00:17  |   Sun 08 Jun 2025
50: Unspoken Contracts in Relationships: How Hidden Rules Create Disconnection & Resentment

50: Unspoken Contracts in Relationships: How Hidden Rules Create Disconnection & Resentment

In this revealing episode, we dive into the powerful concept of unspoken contracts - the invisible rules and assumptions quietly shaping your relationship. From mental load to emotional shutdown, fin…

00:45:33  |   Mon 02 Jun 2025
49. Scorekeeping in Relationships: How to Stop Tallying and Start Connecting | REDDIT STORIES

49. Scorekeeping in Relationships: How to Stop Tallying and Start Connecting | REDDIT STORIES

Welcome to Honey, We Need to Chat, where we dig deep into the real struggles couples face, from silent resentment to those tricky conversations that can make or break a relationship.


In this episode, …

00:46:56  |   Sun 25 May 2025
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