7 - Why Divorce Mediation Has a Higher Vibration Than Litigation

Author: Melissa Wheeler Farag
Published: Tue 23 Jul 2024
Episode Link: https://highvibedivorce.podbean.com/e/why-divorce-mediation-has-a-higher-vibration-than-litigation/

Episode Title: Why Divorce Mediation Has a Higher Vibration Than Litigation

Host: Melissa Wheeler Farag, family law mediator and recovering divorce litigator.

Episode Description: Welcome to the High Vibe Divorce Podcast. In this solo episode, Melissa Wheeler Farag dives deep into why mediation holds a much higher vibration than litigation in divorce and family law cases. She shares her journey from a divorce litigator to a passionate mediator, emphasizing the transformative power of mediation. Melissa also discusses the multiple benefits of mediation, including cost-effectiveness, confidentiality, control, and flexibility. She encourages listeners to consider mediation as a primary option, aiming to foster a positive and collaborative divorce experience.

Key Points:

Introduction
- Divorce is not a failure; it's a new beginning and a vehicle for transformation.
- Melissa’s transition from litigator to mediator.

Why Mediation is Higher Vibration than Litigation
- Mediation preserves relationships and is especially beneficial for co-parenting, business partnerships, or shared properties.
- Mediation is a voluntary, collaborative process, unlike the adversarial nature of litigation.
- Emphasis on the benefits of mediation, including improved communication and better future interactions.

Affirmation
- Affirmation for listeners: "I am capable of making healthy decisions for my future."

Benefits of Mediation
- Cost-Effectiveness: Mediation is generally less expensive than litigation. Flat fee or hybrid payment plans are often available.
- Confidentiality: Mediation sessions are private, unlike public court cases.
- Control and Flexibility: Parties have more control over the outcomes and can make tailored agreements.
- Speed: Mediation can be scheduled quickly and resolve disputes faster than the court system.
- Emotional Well-Being: Mediation is less adversarial and promotes a healthier emotional state.
- Higher Compliance and Satisfaction: Agreements made in mediation are more likely to be followed and result in higher satisfaction.

Emotional Guidance Scale
- Discusses the emotional guidance scale from Abraham Hicks, highlighting how mediation can lead to higher vibrational emotions.
- Encourages listeners to strive for feelings like contentment, optimism, and positive expectations through mediation.

Additional Benefits
- Protection for Children: Mediation helps avoid scenarios where children might have to testify or be involved in the conflict.
- Emotional Closure: Mediation allows for better emotional closure than litigation.
- Opportunities for Apology and Forgiveness: Mediation provides a safe space for apologies and forgiveness.

Call to Action
- Encourages listeners to download the free Emotional Guidance Scale PDF from her website.
- Promotes the importance of giving mediation serious consideration before opting for litigation.