Episode 38: Mortgage Assumptions and Home Ownership During Divorce with Tami Wollensak, CDLP
Host: Melissa Wheeler Farag, Family Law Mediator and Recovering Divorce Litigator
Guest: Tami Wollensak, Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) and VP at New American Funding
Episode Summary:
Navigating real estate during divorce doesn’t have to add unnecessary stress to an already emotional time. In this insightful episode, Melissa sits down for a second conversation with Tami Wollensak, a nationally licensed mortgage loan originator and Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®). Tami shares her expertise on what divorcing homeowners need to know about mortgage assumptions, the real cost of keeping the marital home, and how to make fully informed, financially sound decisions about real estate during divorce.
If you're considering keeping your house after divorce—or you're curious about your mortgage options—this is essential listening.
Key Topics Discussed:
The emotional vs. financial reality of keeping the marital home
Understanding mortgage assumptions: What they are, how they work, and how divorce impacts eligibility
The importance of budgeting for home maintenance and unexpected expenses post-divorce
How spousal support and child support affect mortgage qualifications
Why "house poor" isn't a vibe: balancing financial stability and emotional needs
Common pitfalls with loan assumptions, home equity lines, and timing considerations
The case for renting after divorce—and why it can be a financially wise, low-stress choice
Guest Spotlight:
Tami Wollensak, CDLP is a Divorce Mortgage Specialist and VP with New American Funding. With over 30 years in the mortgage industry, Tami helps divorcing individuals nationwide find smarter, more stable home equity solutions. Her mission is to educate, empower, and remove anxiety from the mortgage process—offering peace of mind and a clear path forward during divorce.
Connect with Tami:
Website: TakeOrLeaveTheHouse.com
Resources: EmpoweredUncoupling.com
Instagram: @tamiwollensakcdlp
Resources Mentioned:
Episode 17: Tami’s first appearance on High Vibe Divorce: "Should I Take or Leave the Marital Residence?"
TakeOrLeaveTheHouse.com for mortgage planning tools
EmpoweredUncoupling.com for real estate and divorce education
Connect with Melissa:
Website: HighVibeMediation.com
Instagram:
Mediation: @highvibemediation
Podcast: @highvibedivorce
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🌟 Until next time, keep the vibes high and the conflict low.