18 - Divorce and Loss as a Spiritual Journey with Ursula Smith, Esq.

Host: Melissa Wheeler Farag, family law mediator and former divorce litigator

Guest: Ursula Smith, Founder of Azimuth Divorce PLLC

In this episode, Melissa is joined by Ursula Smith, attorney and founder of Azimuth Divorce PLLC in Virginia Beach. Together, they explore the transformative potential of divorce and how spiritual practices can provide healing and guidance through life’s toughest transitions. Ursula, a former U.S. Navy intelligence officer and JAG, shares her unique journey from military service to spiritual awakening, which ultimately led her to establish her own divorce firm. She discusses the importance of hiring attorneys and professionals who approach divorce holistically and support clients in ways that resonate on a deeper, spiritual level.

The conversation covers a range of wellness practices, from Akashic Records readings to the benefits of grounding exercises. They also touch on self-care and the importance of choosing professionals who align with your spiritual path during the divorce process. Melissa and Ursula close by discussing the need for gratitude and positivity in everyday life and how shifting one's perspective can turn even the most challenging times into opportunities for growth.

• The Transformative Power of Divorce: Viewing divorce not as a failure, but as a powerful opportunity for personal growth.


• Spiritual Awakening: Ursula’s journey of spiritual awakening following her own divorce and the loss of her mother, which led her to embrace various healing modalities.


• Importance of Holistic Legal Professionals: Why finding an attorney or mediator who approaches divorce holistically can make a significant difference.


• Self-Care & Wellness Practices: Including the benefits of Akashic Records readings, working with a pendulum, and the power of grounding practices like walking.


• Raising Vibrational Frequency: How focusing on gratitude, minimizing alcohol, and embracing a positive mindset can support healing.


• Intuition & Spiritual Gifts: Understanding and developing spiritual gifts, and how tuning into your own intuition can guide you through difficult life events.

• “Divorce isn’t a failure, and your life isn’t over. It’s just beginning.” — Melissa Wheeler-Farag


• “You don’t owe anyone an explanation for what you know you need to do for yourself.” — Ursula Smith


• “Your thoughts manifest your reality. If you wake up each day choosing gratitude, you create a life filled with peace and joy.” — Ursula Smith

From Gabrielle Bernstein's Spirit Junkie Deck: “There’s no such thing as a mistake. Everything happens in divine order. I am being guided to learn and grow.”

• Books: Many Lives, Many Masters by Dr. Brian Weiss


• Practitioners: Dolores Cannon (Quantum Healing Hypnosis Therapy), Dr. Michael Newton (Journey of Souls and Destiny of Souls)


• Supplement Recommendations: Calm magnesium supplement, adaptogenic drinks like Recess

• Website: Azimuth Divorce PLLC


• Instagram: @azimuthdivorce

• Website: highvibemediation.com


• Instagram: @highvibemediation, @highvibedivorce

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Until next time, keep the vibes high and the conflict low!

Time Stamps:

00:00 Introduction to High Vibe Divorce
00:39 Meet Ursula Smith: A Spiritually Minded Divorce Attorney
01:40 The Importance of Spirituality in Divorce
02:40 Navigating Military Divorces with Ursula
11:34 The Role of Divorce Coaches and Holistic Support
13:42 Embracing Spiritual Awakening During Divorce
17:38 Exploring Healing Modalities: From Psychic Mediums to Akashic Records
27:32 Understanding Intuition and Vibrational Frequencies
32:53 Pendulum Communication Techniques
33:37 Personal Spiritual Practices
34:42 Awakening Spiritual Gifts
36:44 The Healing Power of Walking
39:16 Raising Your Vibration and Alcohol
43:00 Navigating High Conflict Divorces
44:38 The Validity of Ending a Marriage
51:02 Listening to Your Body
55:21 Manifesting Positivity and Gratitude
56:40 Conclusion and Contact Information