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E10: The How Is NOT The Problem

Author
Niro Dayalan
Published
Tue 15 Jul 2025
Episode Link
https://share.transistor.fm/s/b2acb68e

In this enlightening episode, we explore why focusing too much on "how" to solve our problems keeps us stuck rather than helping us move forward. 


Key Takeaways:
 

  • The "how" is not what's keeping you stuck - it's about what truly drives you and what you're prioritizing
  • We often obsess over knowing every step before we even commit to our goals
  • Our focus on "how" stems from our need for control, significance, and certainty - it's a safety mechanism against failure
  • When we're not clear about our priorities, we end up choosing pleasure over growth
  • Prioritizing growth over pleasure literally changes your brain, creating new neural pathways that strengthen resilience


The Priority Shift
The real breakthrough comes when we stop asking "how" and start committing to what matters most. When we make something a true priority, the universe bends to help us find the path.

Niro explains, "If you do what's easy, life will be hard. If you do what's hard, life becomes easy."

Call to Action
Make your personal growth—your character, mind, and spirituality—your highest priority. Stop trying to control every "how" and instead focus on who you're becoming. As you grow, the "how" will reveal itself.


This episode offers a brief glimpse into the elite 'High Performing Warrior' program. To learn more about the program, click the link below:
https://unkonventional.com.au/high-performing-warrior/

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