19 | Sis, Your Feet Are Beautiful (But, Are You Wearing Borrowed Stilettos? 👠)

Have you ever tried walking in someone else’s shoes—literally or spiritually—only to realize they don’t fit? In this episode of Her Voice Is a Weapon, I share a personal dream that revealed I was wearing “borrowed stilettos” — walking in someone else’s identity, vision, and systems. At first, I could move in them, but eventually, I had to take them off and step into my own God-given shoes.

This is a raw and honest conversation about comparison, authenticity, and why your spiritual journey can’t be built on someone else’s blueprint.

We’ll talk about:

• How to recognize when you’re walking in a borrowed identity


• Why living authentically can feel scary—but is worth it


• The dangers of comparing your “rebuilding stage” to someone else’s years of experience


• How to trust God with your vision, timing, and provision

Sis, if you’ve been trying to build your Kingdom business using someone else’s voice, pace, or plan—this episode is your invitation to take off the borrowed stilettos and walk confidently in the designer shoes God made just for you.

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Sis, Your Feet Are Beautiful, But Are You Wearing Borrowed Stilettos?