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Her Shift: WHY We Put Up With The Sh*t We Do!

Author
Anna Pearce-Roberts
Published
Fri 17 Jan 2025
Episode Link
https://www.hershift.com/podcast

Have you ever stopped to wonder why we tolerate things that make us unhappy, uncomfortable, or downright miserable? In this episode, I dive into the sneaky ways our tolerance levels get set—usually without us even realising it. From skewed childhood lessons (like “be extra nice to people you don’t like”) to normalising bad behaviour because it’s not always bad, we’re unpacking the habits and beliefs that keep us stuck.

I’ll share a personal story about a realisation I had this week, why it hit me so hard, and how I’m rewriting the rules for myself and my kids. We’ll talk about how unhealthy patterns develop, how they show up in our lives, and, most importantly, how to break free from them.

If you’ve ever stayed in a toxic relationship, put up with a draining friendship, or bent over backward for people who don’t deserve it—this one’s for you.

In this episode, we’ll cover:

  • How our tolerance for sh*t gets set early on.
  • Why bad behaviour isn’t always bad—and why that keeps us stuck.
  • The long-term impact of ignoring our feelings and instincts.
  • Simple steps to unlearn these patterns and reclaim your boundaries.

It’s time to stop putting up with what doesn’t serve you. Tune in for a raw, relatable chat and practical tips to start shifting your mindset today.

I hope you enjoyed this episode and that recovery and change is possible. 

I created Her Shift because I know what it’s like to want more—more confidence, more joy, more purpose, and just... more life. I shifted from a very unfulfilled & numb shell to whole, connected & happy (& successful). Quite literally from surviving to thriving... that's 'The Shift'

My great friend & fabulous human Sam Collins is offering a FREE Program where in just 60 minutes she can take you out of survival mode for good by getting you to do... LESS!

Sounds crazy but as Sam says If doing more was the answer, you’d already have everything you wanted!

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Thank you so much for listening, Ill see you soon

Anna X


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