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EP 213: From Body Checking to Soul Checking ~ How Shadow Work Freed Me From Anorexia + Your 11-Question Guide

Author
Lindsey Nichol - Certified Health Coach, Eating Disorder Recovery Coach, Food Freedom Coach, Eating Disorder Intuitive Therapy Certified
Published
Tue 29 Apr 2025
Episode Link
https://herbestself.podbean.com/e/ep-213-how-shadow-work-helped-heal-my-food-body-relationship-11-questions-to-use-as-a-tool-to-spark-your-inner-healing/

In this deeply personal episode, Lindsey explores how shadow work can help those struggling with eating disorders, particularly anorexia and restrictive eating patterns. This episode provides a guided assignment for listeners to explore the deeper emotional roots of their disordered eating, designed to be completed in a quiet, private space. Through 11 powerful questions, Lindsey invites you to shine light on the shadows that may be manifesting through your relationship with food and your body.


In This Episode

  • Lindsey's personal story about living with anorexia and the hidden emotional pain it masked

  • Introduction to shadow work as a complementary practice to professional eating disorder treatment

  • 11 reflective questions to help identify the deeper wounds and needs behind disordered eating

  • Guidance on approaching this work with self-compassion and patience


The Shadow Work Questions

  1. What is the biggest lie I tell myself constantly?

  2. What is the story I tell myself about this lie?

  3. When am I the hardest on myself and why?

  4. When have I felt rejected, betrayed, or broken?

  5. What would I say to the person that hurt me?

  6. What makes me feel the most jealous? What do I wish I had that I don't?

  7. What traits do/did my parents have that I hope I don't have?

  8. What are my toxic traits? How do I push those on others?

  9. When I think about my future, what am I most afraid of?

  10. When was the last time that I forgave myself?

  11. What does happiness mean to me?


Resources Mentioned

  • Journaling supplies (recommended for completing the shadow work assignment)

  • Finding a quiet, private space like a park bench for reflection


Important Note

This episode is meant to complement, not replace, professional treatment for eating disorders. If you're struggling with an eating disorder, please reach out to a healthcare professional for support.


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* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

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