EP 210.5: STOP Doing These 10 Things if You Feel Stuck & Chained to Disordered Patterns ~ Part 2

If you're feeling stuck in your recovery journey, Episode 210.5, shares the top hidden barriers that might be keeping you chained to eating disorder patterns - and how to break free once and for all.

Stop Assuming You Always Know What's Best

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  • Eating disorders thrive on the illusion of expertise
  
  
  • "I know what's best" is often the disorder speaking, not your wisdom
  
  
  • Recovery requires challenging your own assumptions
  
  
  • Professional guidance provides perspective you can't see from within
  
  
  
  

Stop Believing the Lie That You Aren't Doing Enough to Recover

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    • Recovery isn't about doing more; it's about being more
    
    
    • "Never enough" mentality leads to recovery perfectionism
    
    
    • The essential ingredient isn't more tasks—it's self-compassion
    
    
    • Ask: "How can I bring more compassion to this moment?"
    
    
    
    
  
  
  
  

Stop Avoiding Discomfort

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      • The only way out is through
      
      
      • Eating disorders themselves are systems for avoiding discomfort
      
      
      • Recovery requires moving toward discomfort, not away from it
      
      
      • Each time you face discomfort, you build resilience
      
      
      
      
    
    
    
    
  
  
  
  

Stop Thinking the Worst Possible Scenario Is Gaining Weight

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        • The real worst-case scenario is never experiencing freedom
        
        
        • As long as weight gain remains your greatest fear, the disorder retains power
        
        
        • Recovery may include body changes, but they aren't the catastrophe predicted
        
        
        • There is no wrong choice in recovery—only refusing to make a choice
        
        
        
        
      
      
      
      
    
    
    
    
  
  
  
  

• Identify which of these 10 patterns is most holding you back


• Choose one pattern to focus on disrupting this week


• Practice moving toward discomfort rather than away from it


• Revisit your recovery priorities and realign your energy accordingly


• Consider whether professional support could help you break these patterns

Remember, you are NOT your eating disorder and you are worthy of a life that is FREE from it.

xo,

lindsey

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* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.