Live As If You Will Be Single Forever

How many of us thought that would be single for many years? I sure didn't, every year that I continued to be single, I would be more and more in denial.  I pretended that I was just passing through Singletown, I pretended that I wasn't a resident just like everyone else. What if instead of living in denial, we accepted the fact that we are single, and we started living as if we were going to be single forever?