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giving (un)bothered

Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
37 minutes
Episodes
46
Years Active
2024 - 2025
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sapphic red flags : how to get over your first crush

sapphic red flags : how to get over your first crush

Your first lesbian crush? Been there. Obsessed? Absolutely. Over it? …Eventually. In this episode, we dive deep into the sapphic red flags you should run from (👀), the ones we controversially find ki…

00:44:34  |   Wed 30 Jul 2025
let’s get naked: sexting, strapping & bedroom icks

let’s get naked: sexting, strapping & bedroom icks

In this unfiltered and hilarious episode, we’re getting real about what happens behind closed doors. From sexting fails to our biggest bedroom icks, nothing is off-limits. We dive into the juicy deba…

00:25:45  |   Wed 23 Jul 2025
navigating long distance relationships (with Kelsey & Becky)

navigating long distance relationships (with Kelsey & Becky)

In this episode, we dive deep into the highs and lows of long-distance relationships. We’re joined by Kelsey and Becky, a couple who fell in love 5,000 miles apart after matching on Hinge — and yes, …

01:21:03  |   Wed 16 Jul 2025
we got ghosted by the same girl?! WLW dating horror stories (with Amy Pozzilli)

we got ghosted by the same girl?! WLW dating horror stories (with Amy Pozzilli)

This week, we're joined by our friend Amy to talk all things heartbreak, healing, and sapphic dating chaos. Amy shares how she rebuilt her confidence, stepped back into dating, and how it felt gettin…

00:58:33  |   Wed 09 Jul 2025
building a happy queer marriage (with Megan Elliott-Hewson)

building a happy queer marriage (with Megan Elliott-Hewson)

In this episode, we sit down with queer writer, artist, and pottery studio owner Megan Elliott-Hewson to dive into the beauty and complexity of queer marriage, building a life in creative partnership…

00:37:40  |   Wed 02 Jul 2025
Hinge's love expert Moe Ari Brown on queer dating trends, label fatigue & identity pressure

Hinge's love expert Moe Ari Brown on queer dating trends, label fatigue & identity pressure

In this episode, we’re joined by Moe Ari Brown (they / him) Hinge’s Love & Connection Expert and a licensed therapist—to dive deep into the complexities of queer dating in 2025.

We talk about everyth…

01:07:20  |   Wed 25 Jun 2025
truth or drink: rebounds, exes & kinks

truth or drink: rebounds, exes & kinks

Being queer in your 20s means dating drama, messy breakups, and a few…questionable choices. This week, we play truth or drink and confess it all—from kinks to the ex we’re still not over.


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00:33:38  |   Wed 18 Jun 2025
anxious vs avoidant attachment: how to become secure

anxious vs avoidant attachment: how to become secure

Let’s talk about it: why do anxious girlies keep falling for avoidant people?

In this episode, we get personal about our own experiences dating avoidant partners while navigating anxious attachment. F…

00:39:40  |   Wed 11 Jun 2025
WLW intimacy Q&A: debunking myths & inclusive sex ed

WLW intimacy Q&A: debunking myths & inclusive sex ed

We're talking all things WLW sex in this weeks unfiltered episode!

We answer YOUR most asked questions:

- Is scissoring actually a thing?

- How do WLW deal with long hair during sex?

- What's a myth vs f…

00:39:20  |   Wed 04 Jun 2025
I’m best friends with my ex-girlfriend (with Abisha)

I’m best friends with my ex-girlfriend (with Abisha)

In this episode, we’re joined by queer model, actor, writer and artist Abisha for a candid and inspiring conversation. She opens up about being best friends with her ex-girlfriend—and how her current…

00:48:21  |   Wed 28 May 2025
sapphic dating mistakes

sapphic dating mistakes

Sapphic dating is a wild ride and we’ve made every mistake in the book. In this episode, we roast ourselves and unpack the biggest sapphic dating mistakes we’ve made so you don’t have to. From emotio…

00:35:09  |   Wed 21 May 2025
how to tell if you’re into women (Q&A)

how to tell if you’re into women (Q&A)

In this episode, we’re getting into the messy, relatable realities of queer dating and identity from unpacking internalised homophobia to dealing with rejection in queer dating, we explore how to tel…

00:37:25  |   Wed 14 May 2025
sapphic breakups : how to heal from a heartbreak

sapphic breakups : how to heal from a heartbreak

Breakups are hard—but sapphic breakups? They hit different. In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of ending a queer relationship. Whether you’re healing from your first lesbi…

00:37:23  |   Wed 07 May 2025
kicked out of Uber for being gay (with Aaron & Ryan)

kicked out of Uber for being gay (with Aaron & Ryan)

We sit down with married queer couple Aaron and Ryan to talk about being kicked out of an Uber for being gay during Sydney Pride. We dive into the realities of LGBTQ+ discrimination, traveling while …

00:35:05  |   Wed 30 Apr 2025
how to date women : sapphic edition

how to date women : sapphic edition

In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on all things dating — the good, the awkward, and the (un)bothered. From decoding body language and making eye contact to navigating first date etiquette (who …

00:43:26  |   Wed 23 Apr 2025
being queer is woke? (with Aaron & Ryan)

being queer is woke? (with Aaron & Ryan)

This week, we’re joined by the iconic Australian duo Aaron and Ryan with powerful, heartfelt, and hilarious stories to share. 

In Part 1 of this deep and chaotic two-part episode, we talk about:

  • Their …
00:50:33  |   Wed 16 Apr 2025
let’s get naked :
U-Hauling, role-play & cheating

let’s get naked :
U-Hauling, role-play & cheating

In this unfiltered episode, we're talking cheating, U-Hauling, and role-play - aka the chaotic trifecta of queer dating. Through “Would You Rather questions and relatable scenarios, we unpack it all…

00:33:33  |   Wed 09 Apr 2025
Queer Friendships, Internalised Homophobia & Fighting for Women’s Rights (with Zan Moon)

Queer Friendships, Internalised Homophobia & Fighting for Women’s Rights (with Zan Moon)

This week, we sit down with Zan Moon—women’s rights activist and founder of sapphic events in London. Zan takes us through her coming out story, from realising she was a lesbian in boarding school, t…

00:57:26  |   Wed 02 Apr 2025
escaping the male gaze : after coming out

escaping the male gaze : after coming out

In this episode, we talk about how the male gaze shaped our fashion and behaviour to gain validation. Since coming out, we’ve stepped away from these influences, reclaiming our confidence and dressin…

00:33:22  |   Wed 26 Mar 2025
lesbian stereotypes : signs she’s into women

lesbian stereotypes : signs she’s into women

This week, we’re breaking down iconic lesbian stereotypes—from vegans & carabiner code to tattoos and rock climbing lesbians—We’re decoding the ultimate signs of sapphic energy and asking the real qu…

00:38:22  |   Wed 19 Mar 2025
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