030: How to Transition to Sexy Vibes in Group Sex (Especially with Longterm ENM Friends)

What happens when you’ve had the same group of ENM friends for years? 

In this episode, Vee and Elle sit down with M to chat about the catch-22 of having sex with your friends: how sometimes you sacrifice the quantity of sex for quality when you develop stronger friendships with your ENM partners.

Strategy to turn the vibe sexy in big groups: “orgy boards”, taking a group vote with eyes closed, changing locations/spaces. (4:22)

Why is it so much more challenging when trying to transition into sexy time with a larger group? (9:34)

“Open door policy”: communicating intentions to the group when going off with one person. (12:19)

“Emotionally weak people”: not taking answers personally as the asker of the question, and taking responsibility for your own triggers. (19:00)

Strategy to avoid the challenge of transitioning into sex altogether: day orgies, new energy, and what creates desire according to Esther Perel. (23:41)

Building sexual things up in your mind when you know there will be more opportunities. (32:53)

How to disentangle from someone in an orgy when you want to move on to a different person or position. (36:45)

M’s responses to past episodes: grinding while eating out and face-sitting. (40:04)

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