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008: Rejection: How to Turn Someone Down at a Sex Party and Ethical Rejections

Author
Elle and Vee
Published
Wed 22 Feb 2023
Episode Link
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The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including:

Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or turn someone down in the moment at a sex party? How circumstances, headspace and how well you know the person comes into play: private play parties, organized play parties, lifestyle resorts, etc. (8:15)

The do's and don'ts of rejection.  Rejecting over text, ghosting, and being clear and respectful. (13:54)

Vee gets rejected over text, and how to deal with being rejected. (20:15)

Couples and rejection: just because your partner plays with someone does not mean you will play with them or their partner.  (22:28)

How to reject someone during group sex when you’re not into one of the people. (25:13)

Being approached vs approaching: The gender norms in pursuing, and how we subconsciously consider feelings differently between men and women. (32:11)

Turning down couples with different boundaries. (35:19)

Common Excuses: “I have my period.” (39:38)

Common Excuses: “I’m polysaturated.” What is polysaturated, using it as a way to turn someone down, and how to deal with polysaturation. (42:05)

The concept of “veto”. (46:29)


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