Girl, The Problem Isn’t You - It’s The Way You Are Seeing Yourself w/ This Black Girl

In this conversation, Dom and This Black Girl who created Top Notch Eyewear explore the themes of vulnerability, self-love, and the challenges of navigating divorce. They discuss the importance of identity shifts post-divorce, the opportunities that arise from personal growth, and the significance of parenting through change. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-care, setting boundaries, and the impact of mental health on parenting. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, creating a relatable and empowering dialogue for listeners.

Takeaways

• Self-love is crucial for personal growth.
• Grieving the loss of identity is a common experience post-divorce.
• Opportunities often arise after significant life changes.
• Consistency in parenting is essential for children's well-being.
• Mental health plays a vital role in effective parenting.
• Setting boundaries is necessary for self-care.
• It's important to check in with oneself regularly.
• Learning to say no without guilt is empowering.
• Children benefit from understanding their emotions and boundaries.
• Personal growth can lead to healthier relationships.

Sound Bites

• "give that same love to yourself"
• "graduation was my rebirth"
• "you don't marry to get divorced"
• "keep my cup full"
• "the takers don't have none"

Chapters

00:00
Welcome to Vulnerability

01:12
Navigating Divorce and Self-Love

03:54
Identity Shift and Healing

07:49
Opportunities After Divorce

12:04
The Danger of Leaving

15:12
Parenting Through Change

21:07
Checking In with Yourself

27:09
Empowerment and Boundaries

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