141 - Lily Marrujo - Be You. That’s the Whole Point.

In this episode, I sat down with someone very special to me — my niece Lily — for a conversation that honestly felt like talking to a younger version of myself.

We talked about what it means to grow up in today’s world — the pressures of high school, the weight of comparison, and the internal dialogue we all wrestle with. But what made this episode powerful wasn’t just her honesty, it was her wisdom. At 17, Lily speaks with a level of self-awareness and emotional intelligence most people never reach.

We dove into everything from social media and mental health to finding confidence, forgiving others, and figuring out who you are. She opened up about trials she’s faced, the people who’ve supported her, and how she’s learning not to lose herself in a world that constantly asks you to be someone else.

What surprised me most was her clarity around one idea: confidence doesn’t come from having it all together — it comes from showing up, doing hard things, and choosing to love yourself anyway.

If you’ve ever felt unsure about your path, struggled to be yourself, or just needed a reminder that you’re not alone — this episode is for you.

3 Key Takeaways:

1. Confidence is built, not born — it comes from doing hard things and staying true to yourself, even when it’s uncomfortable.
2. Forgiveness frees you — it’s not about excusing others, it’s about letting go for your own peace.
3. Gratitude and connection matter — life gets better when you surround yourself with people who care, and when you recognize the blessings you already have.

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Getting After It is for those who. want to silence their self-doubt. Refuse to be owned by comfort. Understand their limits are man-made and breakable. We live in a time of constant comparison. Social media drowns us in highlight reels and overnight success stories. But what most people don’t see is the grit behind it all. The reps. The quiet mornings. The sacrifices. The failures.

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