117 - Embrace Who You Are (But Keep Refining It)

When I left home at 18, my dad gave me one piece of advice that stuck: “Remember who you are and always be true to yourself.” That single line has shaped so much of how I live, how I love, and how I lead. 

In this episode, I dig into the power of authenticity—not the fluffy Instagram version, but the kind that comes from knowing yourself deeply, owning your quirks, your passions, and choosing to evolve without losing who you are.

We talk Christopher Robin, Marcus Aurelius, and the myth of “just be yourself.” I also share personal stories of hiding my nerdy side (shoutout Clone Wars fans) and how my wife helped me reconnect with the real me. There’s a difference between staying the same and staying true—this episode will help you find the balance.

Whether you're navigating who you are in your career, relationship, or just trying to feel more like you, this one’s for you. Be you. Fully. Fiercely. And don’t apologize for it.

Key Takeaways:

• Being yourself isn’t staying stagnant—it’s evolving from a place of self-awareness.
• You will attract the right people when you stop trying to fit the wrong mold.
• You can love who you are today and still work to grow tomorrow.
• Your authenticity is your edge. Don’t let the world tell you who to be—show them.

If this message hit home, send it to a friend who might need it. And as always—keep getting after it.

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