079: Ally Rossell | Our First Year of Marriage & Lessons We've Learned

Grab your favorite beverage, because Ally Rossell and I are about to take you on a wild ride through our first year of marriage. We talk a lot about doing long-distance through our first year. Spoiler Alert: it sucks...

Now, if you’re thinking that sounds like a recipe for chaos, you’re not entirely wrong.  Here’s the kicker: we didn’t just survive this long-distance whirlwind; we thrived. How? By treating our marriage with the same focused dedication that Ally brings to her flight training—think care, consistency, and discipline.

In this episode, we discussed how we managed to keep the spark alive while navigating the miles between us. From turning those rare, cherished weekends together into mini honeymoons to keeping the romance fresh with regular ‘virtual dates’ that were filled with soul-searching conversations, we’ve packed this episode with heartfelt reflections and a few tips we picked up along the way.

We’re talking about the kind of growth that happens when you’re forced to confront your quirks, embrace your partner’s, and learn to laugh at the absurdity of it all—like those times when we’ve had to channel our inner Dr. Phil to navigate the trickier conversations about health, spirituality, and the meaning of life. And yes, there were also a few random but fascinating detours into the dangers of grizzly bears and the mind-blowing wonders of outer space, because why not?

You’ll hear how we’ve managed to stay grounded and connected through shared curiosities and intentional togetherness, even when miles apart. Whether it’s our discussions about the challenges we’ve faced or the little victories we’ve celebrated—like finally syncing up our Sunday traditions—you’ll get a front-row seat to the personal transformations that have made our bond stronger than ever.

We’re also shining a spotlight on our support for one another, which is perhaps most visible in our shared passion for running. Yep, we’ve both hit some serious marathon milestones this year, and we’re here to tell you that there’s nothing quite like crossing a finish line—literal or metaphorical—with the person you love cheering you on.

And because we’re all about looking forward, we’re sharing our vision for the future—one that’s filled with the values we hope to instill in our future kiddos and the loving, faith-filled home we’re working to build together. It’s a future where those quirky Sunday traditions we’ve come to cherish are passed down, where resilience and faith are the bedrock of our family life.

Whether you’re navigating your own long-distance relationship or just looking for a bit of inspiration on how to keep the magic alive in your relationship, this episode is a heartfelt celebration of love, growth, and the sheer joy that comes from building a life with someone you adore.

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