These Boots Are Made For Walking: How to Leave Old Patterns Behind
- Author
- Terri Wilson
- Published
- Wed 25 Jun 2025
- Episode Link
- None
Ready to finally walk away from what's keeping you stuck? Today's exploration of control patterns hits right at the heart of our collective struggle to release what no longer serves us.
The most profound truth about breaking free from control isn't just recognizing the problem—it's having the courage to walk away from patterns that have shaped your entire existence. As I share my personal journey with control issues, scarcity mindset, and relationship patterns, you'll discover why we often stay in painful situations until misery becomes unbearable enough to force change.
"Sometimes walking away has nothing to do with weakness and everything to do with strength," I reflect while discussing my own separation journey. "We walk away not because we want others to realize our worth and value, but because we finally recognize our own." This shift in perspective changes everything.
Most transformational patterns trace back to our first seven years of life, creating the imprinting that becomes our survival techniques. But recognizing these patterns isn't enough—we must create space for something new. Like a seed that must die before it can grow into a plant, there must be a death of old ways before resurrection becomes possible. Through practices like Tai Chi Gung, we can clear our chakras daily, removing the "garbage" we continuously pick up as humans.
Whether you're struggling with control issues, relationship patterns, or simply feeling stuck between your old and new self, this episode offers practical wisdom for walking away from what's stealing your peace, joy, and future. Listen now, and discover how to love the sound of your own feet walking toward freedom. Then share this episode with someone who needs to hear that it really is okay to walk away.
