Shelley Guess shares from a sibling perspective about disability in the family.

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Show Notes:

Shelley Guess is a Licensed Professional Counselor and PhD-Candidate in Las Colinas, TX. She has been working as a therapist for over a decade, and is the owner and founder of Hope Connects Counseling, PLLC, a mental health group private practice. She is also the owner of Hope Connects Consulting, a mental health consulting firm. Shelley is the younger sister of Brian Guess, an amazing man diagnosed with IDD.

Overview: We are joined by Shelley Guess, a licensed professional counselor and the founder of both Hope Connect Counseling and Hope Connect Consulting. Shelley shares her personal journey growing up with a brother with special needs. Her story is a powerful testament to the love, challenges, and unique dynamics within families of individuals with disabilities.

1. Personal Journey:
   • Shelley recounts significant moments from her childhood and early adulthood, reflecting on her relationship with her brother, Brian, who has special needs.
   • She shares poignant stories, including a moment when Brian expressed his sadness about not being able to become an astronaut and how he feels about being treated differently due to his disability.
2. Family Dynamics:
   • Shelley discusses the emotional and relational aspects of growing up with a sibling with special needs.
   • She emphasizes the importance of honesty, compassion, and understanding within the family unit.
3. Future Planning:
   • Shelley delves into her thoughts and concerns about Brian's future, especially after their parents are no longer able to provide care.
   • She considers various options, such as creating a supportive living environment and facilitating social connections for Brian.
4. Career Impact:
   • Shelley reflects on how her experiences with her brother and whether it has influenced her professional life.
5. Heartwarming Stories:
   • Shelley shares a touching story about Brian's passion for collecting stuffed animals from claw machines and donating them to homeless shelters for children.
6. Advice and Encouragement:
   • Shelley offers words of encouragement to parents raising children with special needs, reminding them of their incredible efforts and the importance of authenticity in their parenting.
7. Professional Insights:
   • Shelley provides an overview of her work at Hope Connects Counseling and Hope Connects Consulting, emphasizing her commitment to making mental health resources accessible to the community.

Connect with Shelley:

https://www.hopeconnectscounseling.

https://www.hopeconnectsconsulting.com

Instagram: @shelleyguess 

Music Acknowledgement: Audio Coffee - Denys Kyshchuk

Editor: Scott Arbeau

Link for book: The S.H.I.N.E. Principle: The special needs mom's path to strength, hope and happiness by Valerie Arbeau

https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0CW18ZXGX   (Canada)

https://a.co/d/03hFdZI4 (United States)

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