Interview with Shirley Harding, peacemaker mom of three. Shirley's oldest son has Asperger's which was not diagnosed till his teens.

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Introduction:

• Special guest on "Special Needs Mom's Circle of Strength" podcast.
• Guest introduced as Shirley Harding, the host's sister.
• Shirley shares her role as a peacemaker in her family.

Background and Early Years:

• Shirley talks about her first child, Louie.
• Long labor and birth, two weeks overdue.
• Louie diagnosed with Asperger's at age 15.
• Shirley discusses challenges and the intuitive feeling of something being different.

Family Dynamics:

• Shirley has two more children, Kane and India.
• Challenges and joys of raising multiple children, including a special needs child.

Challenges of Parenting a Special Needs Child:

• Need for effective advocacy.
• Dealing with heartbreak on behalf of the child.
• Learning from others' experiences, including public figures like Chris Packham.

Educational Achievements of Louis:

• Louie's academic accomplishments, including a master's degree and diploma in archiving.

Impact on Family Life:

• Shirley shares how raising Louie affected family dynamics.
• Adapting parenting styles for each child's needs.

Perspective on Life and Parenthood:

• Changing expectations and the reality of parenting.
• Adapting to the challenges and constant changes in parenting.

Biggest Challenges as a Special Needs Parent:

• Advocating for the child.
• Dealing with emotional challenges and heartbreak.

Shaping Perspective on Life and Parenthood:

• Realizing that children have their own thoughts and ideas.
• Accepting and adapting to the child's unique journey and personality.

Strategies for Emotional Wellbeing:

• Taking breaks and spending time with family and friends.
• Reflecting on personal feelings and allowing time for emotions.

Maintaining Emotional Wellbeing:

• Acknowledging the need for personal time.
• Finding activities and moments for oneself.

Words of Encouragement:

• Special needs parents are superhuman and can handle the challenges.
• Trust instincts, follow gut feelings, and seek help.
• Emphasizes the importance of taking personal time and staying positive.

Music Acknowledgement: Audio Coffee - Denys Kyshchuk

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