#41 Wifey Swipey Vibe (The Energetics of an Aligned Feminine Dating Profile)

Energy comes first.

If you are a feminine energy woman, there is no amount of strategy (masculine energy) that will make up for misaligned energy. This is why we focus on the energetics first. When we do the inner work, the strategies naturally become clear.

Get clear on how you want to feel in your dream relationship experience.

Practice feeling this way and then write the profile. This will naturally allow men to feel your essence through your words and self-select as they are inspired to step toward you.

Own who/where you are.

There is a common Feminine Energy wound that makes many women want to hide what they truly desire or parts of themselves that make them feel insecure. In our experience, the more you accept yourself, the more attractive you will be to someone who is able to reinforce that level of acceptance of you. This means you don’t have to post filtered photos or pretend to be “more evolved”, you get to be completely authentic AND highly attractive.

Call forth the best men for you by speaking from your most integrated state.

People sound different at different points of their integration journey. Speak from your desires (the most relaxed, confident, “I am the vibe” energy) to their empowered and notice who steps forward. This feedback will allow you to refine your profile as you gain clarity about what you most value and desire.

The information men are needing (and wanting in our experience) is to know what you need to be the most relaxed, feminine version of yourself. Share this information in your photos- what are you doing/where are you when you’re in this state of being- and your prompts to create a multi-dimensional image of who you are.

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