#19 The Mindset Shifts to Receive Powerfully From The Masculine

In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss:

1. Many women believe that in order to feel safe receiving, she needs to have an equal payment available just in case the favor is “called in”. This actually keeps women from being fully present to the experience (that she most desires) and so the gift isn’t allowed to be absorbed before giving back. To flip this, so receiving becomes a nourishing exchange, you have to understand that men give because they want to and begin to trust that.


2. The masculine longs to be received. The “repayment” of a man’s effort and gift is the gracious receipt of it. They give generously with the hopes of simply experiencing you receiving him.


3. Men mean what they say. When they offer something, it is because they are willing to give it to you (it is either from overflow or a calculated sacrifice but it is intentional either way). Women have a hard time trusting this because we often offer things half-heartedly (litmos test: “I hope you say ‘No’”). This sets us up to believe we are “putting him out” if we accept his offer but we are really missing an opportunity for both of us to be deeply nourished (you get what you need and gets to feel of service- aka “points”).


4. Your expression of happiness and receiving what you need is highly attractive and motivating to the Masculine. Many women have the experience of this vulnerable experience being unsafe and have to allow their nervous system to recalibrate in order to open up instead of reacting and shutting down.


5. Nothing will increase your self-worth like allowing yourself to absorb the gifts that are available on a daily basis. When women show up to life in this paradigm she will be someone that is innately more attractive to men because she registers as someone they can “win points” with (see episode 1). This will set you up to give “cleanly” because you have enough to give from overflow instead of overextending ourselves to buy love.

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