The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores.
In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss:
- Integrity is sexy because it feels safe to the Feminine. A man that knows himself and what he is looking for will behave in a way that is in line with the outcome he is building. This allows him to be honest about what he is looking for (casual, long term relationship, etc) and the Feminine can then discern how she wants to show up Action Item: The more the feminine feels safe, the more of her heart you will be able to experience so you can find the person with the most aligned values.
- Planning ahead is more than scheduling- giving the Feminine notice gives her a sense of calmness allows her to feel safe (or do things that would allow her to feel that way) to let you lead.
- Desire= turn on. Romantic connections require an exchange of sexual energy (spontaneity, flirting, charisma, etc), in order to create tension. This is why safety is so important to allowing romance to deepen, many women experience tension around revealing their sexual energy. Action Item: The more calm her body is the less self-conscious she will be in sharing sexual energy (flirting, touch, playfulness, etc)
- Green flags to ask her out will be observed in her body language and energy. The Feminine is naturally expressive, the more calm a woman feels around you the more she will feel free to express- this is where you will get the information that makes it clear to you. Action Item: When the Feminine feels safe, she naturally softens. Observe her body language and even ask if you aren’t sure.
- Consistent communication creates safety in your absence. This keeps her nervous system open and playful so you are more likely to bring out the best of her. Action Item: Small actions that let us know you desire for us to feel safe cue our body to relax and receive your advances.
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