#106: What Women Wish Men Knew About Bids for Connection

For most men, this stuff isn’t obvious. And we get it; you are not a mind reader. When she says something random like “Kiwis are on sale,” you’re not thinking, “Ah yes, a hidden test of my emotional availability.” You’re thinking, “…Cool? Do we need kiwis?” 

And paying for dates? Yeah, you’ve probably heard a million opinions: “It’s 2024, who cares?” or “Real men always pay.” But here’s the truth: It’s not about the money. It’s about what it does for her.

In this episode, we break down:

• What a "bid for connection" really is (hint: her random comments such as “Look at that weird cloud” aren’t small talk)

• How missed bids create distance

• The psychology behind why covering the date (especially early on) changes how she sees you.

Women notice everything. The way you handle these moments decides whether she sees you as just another date or someone worth investing in.

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