Special 07: Her Hot Date

Happy Valentine’s Day, Lovebugs! Let’s embrace our Lover-Girl Archetypes with some romantic first-date GONE RIGHT energy. Who else to bring us these vibes but one of my favorite lover-girl clients, Laurie. Then, I activate my Sage Archetype to share practicality, strategy, and guidance.

This date isn't just about the lovey-dovey stuff, though. It involves repair and redemption–a pair of relationship skills necessary for strong connections and healthy relationships. We'll also explore a pre-date ritual, emphasizing mutual effort in the dating process.

I share relationship insight about not jumping to conclusions, listening to your intuition, and giving a man a fair chance. We dissect the details, stressing the importance of holding a man to his word and practicing empathy and understanding. It's not just about grand gestures; it's about setting the stage for a meaningful and responsible connection. Stay tuned for insights into building smarter, safer, and happier romantic connections with Laurie and her date, Mr. Banana. 

If you have a Secret Story you want to share with me, I invite you to drop your truth for the next Secret Story episode!

Time Stamps:

• [1:02] - Laurie will be recounting a dreamy date with a twist: a story of repair and redemption.


• [5:03] - I set the stage for Laurie's romantic date, repair work, and pre-date energy.


• [8:32] - I share some important housekeeping notes before diving into Laurie's story.


• [10:12] - Laurie details her date, revealing a change in plans, romantic gestures, and meaningful conversation.


• [14:44] - Mr. Banana's date involves a gentle approach, exploring faith, family dynamics, and romantic energy.


• [18:03] - I intervene, advising Laurie not to settle but to balance romance while ensuring a meaningful connection.


• [19:42] - Laurie explains why she gave Mr. Banana a chance, expressing openness and acknowledging personal growth.


• [21:56] - I offer guidance in negotiating and setting terms.


• [24:47] - Questions are raised about Mr. Banana's change in plans and delivering on commitments.


• [26:55] - Noting the importance of giving chances, I explore the need for answers and fair evaluations.


• [29:31] - I acknowledge past experiences, encouraging fair judgment and giving each man a chance to prove himself.


• [31:47] - I advise Laurie to listen to her intuition and check assumptions, and I offer guidance on the redemption process.


• [35:09] - Teaching pre-date rituals, I teach intentional conversations, negotiations, and agreements.


• [38:31] - I close on the power of repair, getting what you want, and maintaining feminine wisdom.

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