Pop-Up 23: Are You A Woman Of Influence?

“As women, we need teachers, mentors, guides, mothers who invite us into womanhood. They teach and support us as we mature and advance in the different stages of womanhood.” - Joyice

Welcome to Week 8 of Fun Girl Summer, Lovebugs! Today, we conclude our wise womanhood series with a talk about the transformative power of influence and how it intersects with the virtues of wisdom. We start with a review of the seven main virtues of wisdom and their role in shaping a resilient and adaptable mindset. Then, we shift to flexibility as a relationship superpower, and how it enables us to navigate the unexpected with an open mind. You'll learn why the ability to accept and share influence is crucial for sustaining relationships and how persistence, fueled by visualization, keeps us moving toward our intentions despite challenges. As we wrap up, I’ll challenge you to reflect on your own influence, especially in the context of dating and marriage. Are you a woman of influence? Tune in to find out! 

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Literature & Links Mentioned: 

Accepting Influence (Drs. Gottman research)

A Husband’s Influence (Drs. Gottman research) 

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Time Stamps:

[03:24] -  Our second verb pair: inspire and influence. 

[03:50] -  A review of the seven main virtues of wisdom.

[05:24] -  I caution on how to balance the virtue of control in your life. 

[06:34] -  I inform you about one way to approach change.

[08:33] -  Flexibility is a relationship superpower.

[09:08] -  Not accepting the influence of a spouse is a significant predictor of divorce.

[10:32] -  When you share influence it tends to multiply. 

[12:34] -  I define and explain persistence along with patience. 

[13:58] -  How a person engages with challenges reveals where their commitment lies. 

[14:32] -  Visualization is an effective practice to support some virtues of wisdom. 

[15:59] -  Listen to a client story I tell about her benefits from visualization,  record-keeping, and picture-keeping.

[18:23] -  The ways of a woman I have taught in this series take a different form as a wife.

[19:26] -   Listen to your episode recap.