90: Could Going “Off Script” Lead You to Love?

Author: Joyice Robinson Myers, PhDc
Published: Fri 04 Jul 2025
Episode Link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/forlovesake/episodes/90-Could-Going-Off-Script-Lead-You-to-Love-e34nl7v

Join me and Vanessa from Ready to Love: Dallas Fort Worth for our second reflective conversation on the lessons she’s learned since filming wrapped.

We frame our conversation through the lens of insight, hindsight, and foresight: what she’s come to understand, what she’s had to unlearn, and how she’s now showing up with more emotional clarity, relational courage, and spiritual alignment. This episode’s core lesson? Sometimes, the best thing you can do for your love life is go off script.

Vanessa opens up about how clinging too tightly to a checklist, a playbook, or a set of expectations can keep you from receiving the very thing you say you want. From there, we unpack the value of loosening your grip, cultivating feminine discretion, receiving masculine support, and embracing God’s direction over your own plan. Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, navigating dating again, or trying to stay open to unexpected blessings—this one’s for you.

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