Why Relationships Are Complicated for Survivors and How to Unhook from Relationship Drama [118]

Living in abusive environments doesn’t just harm our hearts, bodies, and souls, it also wrecks our ability to have healthy relationships. When all you know (or most of what you know) is unhealthy, navigating friendships, family, romance, and even relationships with other survivors can be messy, confusing, and painful. 

I answer a listener question about the challenges of relationships after abuse and how survivors can break out of toxic patterns that helped them survive the past but aren’t serving them now.

In this episode:

• Why you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t in an abusive relationship (but that doesn’t apply in healthy ones)
• Which things you need to GIVE UP and which things you need to TAKE BACK to live in freedom, clarity, and peace
• The critical difference between criticism and feedback (and why both are so difficult for survivors)
• A mind-blowingly easy technique to reprogram your brain out of negative thought patterns (which are the BIGGEST REASON you feel stuck and miserable and afraid)
• Some simple, overarching truths about this entire process. Hint: It’s all about YOU in the best way, and there’s no rush 

Access the transcript, read the show notes, and/or ask Natalie a question here

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