How To Make Friends As Adults

Making friends as a grown-up isn’t as easy as it used to be. In this vulnerable and practical episode, Andrew and Catherine talk candidly about their own struggles with adult friendship—and why it's harder than it looks. From mom-friend pickup lines at the park to feeling ghosted after a good conversation, they explore what makes friendships work, how to initiate without overthinking it, and why proximity and personality play such a big role.

If you’ve ever wondered “Is it just me?”—this one’s for you.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why making friends as an adult is harder than it was in school
• How introverts and extroverts experience friendship differently
• Why proximity, shared interests, and vulnerability matter
• Two practical ways to connect with new people
• How to handle ghosting, rejection, or just plain busy lives
• Why it’s okay (and smart) to have different friends for different parts of your life
• How to initiate friendship without feeling awkward
• The “3 friend types” to surround yourself with for connection and growth

Practical Tips From the Episode:

• Ask for numbers (even if it feels like dating)
• Reach out to old friends—just be honest
• Be vulnerable or be curious (ideally both!)
• Don’t expect one person to meet every need
• Embrace diversity in age, interests, and energy levels
• Let go of perfection and initiate anyway

Your Glimmers of the Week:

Catherine discovers the joy (and simplicity) of homemade key lime pie, and Andrew shares his excitement for summer travel plans and adventures to come.

💬 Feeling isolated or struggling to find your people?

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