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Special Guests Lisa & Steve!

Author
Steve, Lisa Y, Lisa Shield- Host/Love Coach & Expert
Published
Tue 05 Sep 2023
Episode Link
https://dating-without-drama.simplecast.com/episodes/special-guests-lisa-steve-wDbqOiFR

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- About Lisa Y, a divorced mom and lawyer who is used to taking care of her kids and had rarely invested in herself before Lisa Shield’s program.

- About her desire for change and not wanting to have regrets in the future

- How she prioritized coaching calls in a commitment to invest time, finances, hopes and dreams into the program

- How she met Steve, what she found in him, and what he found in her 

- Her moments of feeling discouraged but encouraged by Steve to keep going

- Her acknowledging the challenges of the journey and the importance of support

- Her learning to value personal relationships and experiences over work accomplishments

- Her exploring the lessons learned from recommended readings and the Four Agreements

- Her recognizing patterns in dating and relationships 

Key quotes:

  • "I recognized myself. I recognized other people. I recognized how I date, but I also recognized my other relationships... That book was really life changing." — Lisa Y.
  • "For these set of weeks, I am committed to that, and work will always be there... But I needed to invest in myself, and you really did impress that upon me." — Lisa Y.
  • "The idea of slowing down and enjoying who you're with in that moment, that rings true in all aspects of my life, because I don't want everything to be said and done. And the only thing I had to show for it was work. That's not good. That's not where I want to be." — Lisa Y.
  • “This is hard to keep up. And I can see why people throw in the towel. But you encouraged me keep going, keep going and keep doing the work. And it made all the difference because I want this guy to travel with and to cut the birthday cake with." — Lisa Y.
  • ​​”No relationship lasted longer than three months. It seems like that was a magic point where the real truth comes out and breaks loose. I was trying to slow things down and really make sure I was picking the right person to begin with and giving that more thought than just falling into things, trying to be more deliberate." — Steve
  • "Drama in relationships, where someone instigates conflicts for the thrill of breaking up and making up, is sheer madness. Personally, I've been in such situations before, and I can't tolerate it. Genuine disagreement is one thing, but intentionally causing drama for emotional rollercoasters is something I refuse to engage in." — Steve
  • "Two people can be passionately in love and not fight." — Lisa Shield

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected] 


Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected]

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