- Author
- Lisa Shield- Host/Love Coach & Expert, Kari Lee- Editor/Producer, Meryl Klemow- Show notes
- Published
- Thu 03 Feb 2022
- Episode Link
- https://dating-without-drama.simplecast.com/episodes/is-your-optimism-bias-actually-ruining-your-chances-at-finding-true-love-yFc7yURw
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- What is the “optimism bias” anyway + shocking stats!
- What areas could you benefit from taking practical realistic action?
- How do you begin to put energy and devotion into the RIGHT way to date?
- If I’m beautiful and successful enough, won’t the men just come find me?
- Lisa explains why more career success often means even less luck in dating. How unfair! What can you do about it?
- Does getting rid of the “optimism bias” mean you will be a negative thinker? Isn’t positive thinking healthy?
- What are some practical steps you can take towards being more of a realist?
- How does our optimism bias actually make men run for the hills and feed anxiety?
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Mentioned:
The Four Agreements
The Optimism Bias | Tali Sharot
Quotes
- “We lack realism when it comes to finding love.”
- “I realized that the journey to find love is really the ultimate spiritual path.”
- “Love with a partner is the most spiritual thing we do in life.”
- “For women, it's the exact opposite of men. We have less of a chance of being able to find a true partner as we go up the corporate ladder or the ladder of success, whereas men have a much higher chance of finding a partner.” - Lisa
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Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa
Email the podcast at: [email protected]