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GITRMM: Fearless Authenticity: Mastering Emotional Nakedness without Compromising Boundaries

Author
Benjamin Shield PhD, Lisa Shield
Published
Tue 01 Aug 2023
Episode Link
https://dating-without-drama.simplecast.com/episodes/gitrmm-fearless-authenticity-mastering-emotional-nakedness-without-compromising-boundaries-Ed7iD9eL

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • What does it really mean to be “emotionally naked”?
  • In the same way we get physically naked, we don’t get emotionally naked at all once. It should come off slowly, and piece by piece.
  • Being fearlessly authentic doesn’t mean dumping on the person, nor does it mean too much too soon.
  • Fearlessly authentic means being fearless and not oversharing.
  • There’s a sense of responsibility and emotional maturity that goes along with being fearlessly authentic.
  • Why it’s important to let someone know what your boundaries are, and why it can be cruel not to.
  • Lisa and Benjamin model an example of fearless authenticity on a date.
  • What things foster vs. kill communication?
  • It’s also not just the words we say, but the way we say those words.
  • Your needs and boundaries may change from moment to moment, and that’s okay.
  • Words can bring us closer together, or words can be a weapon. And, it’s also the way we say those words that matter.

Continue On Your Journey:

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Quotes:

  • Words can bring us closer together, or words can be a weapon.”  - Benjamin
  • “I think it’s the willingness to share all of us, but perhaps not all at once.” Benjamin
  • “With any great communication, you have to take into account the person sitting across from you and be conscious of their bandwidth.” - Lisa
  • “Fearless authenticity means being fearless and not oversharing. There’s a sense of responsibility and emotional maturity that goes along with it.” - Lisa
  • “Being emotionally naked just doesn’t mean being emotional.” - Benjamin
  • “It’s the presence of two people sitting there where nothing else exists.” - Benjamin
  • “It’s not just the words, it’s the way people say the words.” - Lisa

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected]

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