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GITRMM ep 37: Got Ghosted? Here’s What To Do Next!

Author
Lisa Shield- Host/Love Coach & Expert, Benjamin Shield Ph.D- CoHost/Author, Kari Lee- Producer/Editor, Meryl Klemow- Show notes
Published
Tue 07 Jun 2022
Episode Link
https://dating-without-drama.simplecast.com/episodes/ghosting-9DjS060p

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Ghosting happens, even to the best of us. However, it’s important to remember that you are still in control of your reactions and how you handle it. 
  • Even though getting ghosted can feel super disappointing, a lot of men disappear because they are afraid the relationship is moving too fast and they don’t want to anger or upset a woman by telling her that he doesn’t see it moving forward. 
  • Why do men sit on 3+ hour dates that seem to be wonderful, never to call again? 
  • Other people may ghost, but it’s important for you to live in your integrity and always end things kindly. 
  • When we have a conclusion, there’s understanding and maybe even an eventual forgiveness. When we ghost, you leave the other person to be confused and in the dark about what they did, and what went wrong. 
  • The same way that you may have a long list of turn offs that may make you reconsider a second date with a man, chances are that he has them too! 
  • Men may have a quick timeline for sex, but women have a quick timeline for commitment. Men often ghost when they feel like the relationship is a train speeding down the tracks, with no end or stop in sight. 

Continue On Your Journey

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Email the podcast at: [email protected]

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Quotes

  • “We often encourage people, men and women, not to leave dead bodies in their path.” Benjamin
  • “Always end things kindly.” - Benjamin 
  • “We give a lot of our power away to men and then set ourselves up as victims when we do that.” - Lisa
  • “Men may have a quick timeline for sex, but women have a quick timeline for commitment.” - Benjamin

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected]

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