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GITRMM ep 24: But What Does “Doing the Work” Mean Exactly?

Author
Lisa Shield- Host/Love Coach & Expert, Benjamin Shield Ph.D- CoHost/Author, Kari Lee- Editor/Producer, Meryl Klemow- Show notes
Published
Tue 22 Feb 2022
Episode Link
https://dating-without-drama.simplecast.com/episodes/doing-the-work-fprHF3mC

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Why “working on yourself” doesn’t always guarantee that the work will translate over to your relationship. 
  • What most people have wrong about “doing the work” and why they are spinning their wheels with little to no results. 
  • How do Lisa and Benjamin help their clients become the best version of themselves so they can step out and find an equal partner? 
  • Why is it important to do the work? What happens if you don’t? 
  • What if you don’t have a love partner just yet - shouldn’t you just wait and do the work once you’re both together? 
  • Once you find the Guardian of Your Soul, do you still have to do the work? 
  • What does “doing the work” mean to Benjamin and Lisa, even after all these years together? 
  • It’s one skill set to commit to individual growth, and another to do it with a partner.

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Mentioned:

don Miguel Ruiz 

Quotes: 

  • “Sometimes the work we do to understand ourselves is to get a better sense of who we are in the world, but it can become a bit insular.” - Benjamin 
  • “We have to learn how to find a balance and middle ground between man and woman, and learn how to merge.” - Lisa 
  • “One of the dangers of spiritual growth is that we develop an identity of what spirituality is, and if someone doesn’t fit into that model, then they’re not spiritual.” - Benjamin 
  • “We can have all this growth and understanding and all of these things, but to be emotionally naked with another person - that's another skill set.” - Lisa

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected]

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