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Do You Lose YourSELF in Relationships?

Author
Lisa Shield- Host/Love Coach & Expert, Benjamin Shield Ph.D- CoHost/Author, Kari Lee- Producer/Editor, Meryl Klemow- Show notes
Published
Tue 19 Apr 2022
Episode Link
https://dating-without-drama.simplecast.com/episodes/how-to-maintain-your-self-identity-in-dating-relationships-xHmoYQxP

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • How do we maintain our autonomy in a relationship? 
  • What does it look like to lose yourself and your identity in a relationship, and how do hormones and anxiety play a role? 
  • Lisa and Benjamin describe a few typical scenarios that occur when the intimate bond starts prematurely. 
  • Once we become sexually or chemically bonded, we can start to lose ourselves. 
  • In a relationship where you guard each other's souls, you are able to surrender completely. 
  • A good coach can help you identify what you have to offer that a man can’t get anywhere else. Working with Lisa and Benjamin, their clients learn to mirror a man’s masculinity back to him, which in turn makes her irresistible. 
  • Why are people afraid to ask for the space they need? 

Continue On Your Journey

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Mentioned:

Carl Rogers

Lynn Andrews 

Attached. 

Quotes: 

  • “A man is attracted to a woman because a woman is his teacher.” - Benjamin
  • “A woman can offer a man things that a man can’t get from anywhere.” - Benjamin
  • “If a woman is in her femininity then a man can be in his masculinity.” - Benjamin 
  • “You want to start to allow your reactivity to come up, and then you want to start doing some self-processing work.” - Lisa 
  • “Confidence is sexy, and it is super attractive to be in control not of the other person, but of your own reactivity and emotions.” - Lisa

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected]

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