11. The Alarming One

This week, Ali & Roark are seeing red! Flags, that is. They start by defining a red flag: how is it different from a dealbreaker, and is a yellow flag even a thing? Then they go through how to spot common red flags in dating app profiles, in early messaging or texting, and once you've started dating. In the process, Roark reads Ali two listener emails. One wants to know how to recognize a red flag for what it is rather than thinking the issue will work itself out, whereas the other describes herself as hyper vigilant about red flags and wonders if she's reading too much into a new partner's behavior. Ali & Roark quickly realize that this is a massive topic worthy of multiple episodes, but want to hear from you about what topics to dive deeper into...

If you want to suggest other red flags for them to discuss, send in your own phone throwing moment, submit a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

Also, this episode mentions DJ Khaled's Proust Questionnaire (yes, that is a sign of how chaotic this episode gets). Linked here: https://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2016/11/dj-khaled-proust-questionnaire