It’s my birthday! I’m officially 28—which means I’m older, wiser, and finally over the made-up timelines I used to stress about. Marriage by 30? Millionaire by now? Yeah… let’s all relax. I’m letting go of the pressure, embracing where I’m at, and actually celebrating myself for once (because someone has to). Plus, a little inspo from my favorite Housewives proving that aging is nothing to fear—especially if you do it fabulously.