A father must be an inspiration

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the Prophets and Messengers.
Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, may peace and blessings be upon him and his family and his family,
has been a great Muslim.
After that, my brothers and sisters, Allah mentioned men in the Qur'an.
And he mentioned the relationship of the man and the woman in marriage.
And he mentioned the role of men, the fathers, in the homes.
And Allah, Subhanahu wa ta'ala, said,
الرجال قوامون على النساء
Allah said, the men,
Allah did not say,
Allah did not say,
He said,
الرجال, with the plural of رجل,
الرجال قوامون على النساء
The men have been given authority over the women.
Allah did not say,
الرجال قوامون على النساء
Or تحت النساء
Allah said, على النساء
Men have been given authority over the women.
The reason I am saying this is because
The result of the feminist movement
And then later on, the woke movement
Has produced, has literally emasculated the men.
At least those men who have allowed themselves to be emasculated.
And it seems to have produced two extremes.
On the one hand, you have the brutal, foul-mouthed men
Who curse their wives, who beat the wives, who beat their children.
And on the other extreme, you have men who are women with beards.
No backbone.
Now, both are men who are women with beards.
No backbone.
Both are horrible.
Both are terrible.
A man who beats his wife, a man whose foul mouth curses his wife
Is like spitting in the air.
The spit falls in your face.
Because your wife is your honor.
If you curse your wife, you are cursing yourself.
If you beat your children or your wife,
You are only proving to them that you are a stronger animal than them.
Right?
Nothing else.
And on the other hand,
If you are a woman with a beard, which is so-called man,
Then there is no leadership in the house.
Allah gave in Islam,
Everyone has a role.
This whole false ideology of the West,
Of equality between men and women,
Everyone has a role. This whole false ideology of the West,
Of equality between men and women,
Is nonsense.
We have equity.
We do not have equality.
We have a division of roles.
There is a role for the mother.
There is a role for the wife.
And there is a role for the father.
There is a role for the man.
Both are equally important.
It's not a question of one being more important than the other.
It's not a question of equality.
It's a question of two very important roles,
Working hand in hand,
Working together,
To produce a generation which is a credit to the parents,
And a credit to society,
A credit to Islam.
Now this has failed.
This is not happening.
So we got these two extremes.
Brutalized or brutal men,
Or effeminate men.
Now this must change.
The role of the father is to produce,
Is to be a role model for the children,
Especially the sons.
And that does not come out of weakness.
It comes out of strength.
And strength is not displayed by brutalizing,
By foul mouthing.
Strength is displayed by character.
It must begin with your appearance.
You must have the appearance of a man.
You must have the appearance of Rasulallah .
You don't shave your face and look like a woman.
You don't begin your day by shaving your face,
And removing the sign of Rasulallah from your face.
When Rasulallah commanded you and said,
Grow your beards.
Why do you shave your face?
For what?
To look like a woman?
Then it extends to,
Think about this.
What is the first memory?
The other day,
Sheikh Hafizahullah, may Allah bless him,
He told us about his father.
And he said that,
For all my life,
I would hear my father praying Salatul Lail.
Kamul Lail.
So also with me,
I have mentioned this story many times.
My earliest memory,
Is my father praying Salatul Lail.
Is my father waking up to make Udo for Kamul Lail.
In the days I'm talking about,
Sixties,
There was no heating in the bathroom.
There was no electric heaters and stuff.