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Big Decisions. Why are We So Obsessed with What Other People Think?

In this episode of the Faithful Chicks podcast, Kelly Kirstein discusses the challenges of making big decisions while being overly concerned about others' opinions. She emphasizes the importance of grounding one's identity in God's direction rather than in social validation. Kelly shares personal experiences of people-pleasing and offers practical tools for seeking God's guidance in decision-making. The conversation also touches on managing emotions, setting boundaries, and living authentically for God rather than seeking approval from others.

takeaways

• We all want to be liked, but it can lead to confusion.
• When our identity is based on others' opinions, we lose sight of ourselves.
• People pleasing can lead to burnout and frustration.
• It's essential to rely on Jesus for guidance in decision-making.
• Listening to others is fine, but it must align with God's will.
• Pray from your heart and be honest with God.
• Seek wise counsel but prioritize God's direction.
• Managing emotions is crucial in decision-making.
• Setting boundaries helps maintain self-control and peace.
• You are enough and called by God, regardless of others' approval.

titles

• Breaking Free from People-Pleasing
• Finding Your True Identity in Christ

Sound Bites

• "God has never called me to be famous."
• "People can be loud, they can be pushy."
• "Let him fill you with peace."

Chapters

00:00
The Trap of People-Pleasing

03:05
Finding God's Direction in Decision-Making

05:52
Practical Tools for Seeking God's Guidance

12:09
Setting Boundaries and Embracing God's Approval

Welcome to the Faithful Chicks Podcast for young women 16+. Hosted by Kelly Kirstein

Season 3 teachings are inspired from the Just a Girl Who Loves Jesus Bible Study.  Click Here to purchase your copy of the study on Amazon.

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