The Trap of Potential: Why You Can’t Save Someone Who Won’t Grow

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In this eye-opening episode of F That: Shift Your Perspective, Elevate Your Power, Alexis Frank dives into the emotional trap of seeing “potential” in others — and what happens when you attach your peace, power, or plans to someone else's timeline.

Through personal stories and hard-earned wisdom, Alexis explores the concept of alternate timelines — the infinite paths people could take — and how dangerous it can be to hold someone to a future they never asked for.

This is a powerful reminder that leadership is not control, and love is not rescue.

🔥 You’ll Learn:

• Why seeing potential isn’t always a good thing
• The resentment that builds when people don’t meet your expectations
• How emotional intelligence reframes your relationships
• The illusion of control and the freedom in letting go
• How to model leadership through self-growth — not saving

If you’ve ever been hurt trying to fix, heal, or grow someone who didn’t ask for your help — this one is for you.

Timestamps (Chapters)

• 00:00 – Introduction to Alternate Timelines
• 02:41 – Recognizing Potential in Others
• 05:35 – The Dangers of Holding Others to Potential
• 08:45 – Personal Experiences with Potential
• 11:38 – The Illusion of Control
• 14:25 – Focusing on Self-Growth
• 17:16 – True Leadership and Setting Examples
• 20:04 – Recap and Closing Thoughts

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