Ep 43: The Real Reason They Pull Away (It’s Not What You Think)

If you have an anxious attachment style and keep finding yourself stuck in painful push-pull dynamics, this episode is going to shift everything.

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You keep asking, “Why do they always pull away just when things are going well?”
.And the internet keeps telling you “They’re just avoidant.”
.But in today’s episode, I’m giving you the real reason they pull away and it’s not what you’ve been told.

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I’m walking you through:✨ The micromoment where your anxious energy subtly changes—and starts pushing them away
.✨ Why your nervous system is expecting abandonment (and how that expectation gets reflected back)
.✨ The reason love feels easy with people you don’t like, but chaotic with the ones you do
.✨ The subconscious identity that’s keeping you stuck in hot-and-cold relationships
.✨ How to stop abandoning yourself—so they stop abandoning you

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We’re not blaming them. We’re not blaming you. We’re taking your power back.
.And if you’re ready to finally end the cycle of people pulling away, this episode is your wake-up call.

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Want to go deeper?
My brand new masterclass Stop Them Pulling Away is now live.

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You’ll learn exactly how to shift the anxious energy that’s subtly pushing people away, so you feel secure, wanted, and deeply met in love.

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Click here to join Stop Them Pulling Away now

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