Getting Under to Get Over: When to Start Dating Again

    In This Episode: 

• Infidelity relationships outside of the marriage account for almost 60% of separation and divorces.
• This episode airs the day after Valentine's Day 2022, so happy valentines day!
• How soon can you date:
  • At least wait until you're separated, (legally, not just a verbal agreement)
• When you're separated in NC, you have to be separated for a year and a day before you can get divorced.
• We talk about all the issues that can come up from dating during your separation.
• We discuss some of North Carolina's outdated laws.
• We suggest not talking about your dating, separation, or divorce on social media.
• Consider not introducing the person you are dating to your children until they have time to heal and adjust from the divorce.
• Elizabeth talks about the four-seasons rule. This means being with someone with all four seasons to get to know them more completely.
• We talk about how judges consider common arguments given by people going through a divorce when it comes to dating, kids, and co-parenting agreements.
• If you're still in the middle of custody issues and you still got a custody trial come. For sure, that girlfriend or boyfriend is going to be subpoenaed to come and testify at court. And they're going to get all their documents subpoenaed until you're just making it even more difficult.

Help your friends who may be going through a divorce go from victim to victorious and bitter to better.

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