How To Use Visioning as a Weapon: How to Lead Yourself Through Chaos

What if your breakthrough isn't about hustling harder, but getting crystal-clear on who you're becoming?

This episode cuts through the noise to reveal how creating a genuine vision transforms everything. Not a corporate mission statement or some vague affirmation, but a raw, specific picture of the man you're meant to be. When host Corey Baum wrote his own eulogy from his son's perspective, it became more than a writing exercise—it became a mirror forcing him to confront who he had been and choose who he would become.

The most powerful shift happens when you stop writing about the man you hope to be someday and start speaking as the man who's already here, just waiting for permission to lead. Your vision needs specific details that make it tangible: not "I want to be present" but "I sit on the floor building Legos with my kids before school, phone away, fully engaged." This specificity turns abstract wishes into a compass that guides your decisions when life feels chaotic.

Your vision already exists in the contrast between what drains you and what lights you up—those aren't just emotions, they're data points showing you the way forward. Identity isn't built through dreaming but through demonstration, taking one sentence from your vision and embodying it today. Because the truth is, the man you're becoming isn't waiting for more time—he's waiting for you to claim him as yours right now.

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