Why do so many relationships that look strong on the outside secretly fall apart behind closed doors? In today’s episode, we share a hidden truth that most people overlook, but once you see it, you can’t unsee it. It’s the quiet pattern that leaves partners feeling drained, disconnected, and questioning their future together. We’ve seen it in clients, we’ve lived it ourselves, and we know it might be showing up in your life too. If you’ve ever wondered why love sometimes feels heavier than it should, this conversation is for you.
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Show notes:
(2:09) A story of burnout and imbalance
(10:38) Why the unequal value of time destroys love
(13:27) Gender roles, fear, and silent suffering
(16:47) JC talks about the Evolve Ventures community, where she can be authentic and have meaningful conversations.
(20:09) The data on invisible household labor
(25:12) How to shift beliefs and create equity
(28:46) The CPE model for shared ownership
(32:57) Outro