#431 | We're Setting Boundaries Wrong...Here's How to Do It Instead

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Boundaries are the poetry of self-respect. In this episode, we unpack why so many people get them wrong and how to finally get them right. We share the real definition of a boundary, the trap of outsourcing them to others, and how fear of rejection keeps us stuck. With personal stories and honest conversation, we show how boundaries tie directly to values, self-respect, and growth. If you’ve struggled to set limits without guilt, this episode will give you the clarity and courage to honor yourself.

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Show notes:
(2:15) Boundaries aren’t team projects with others
(6:36) Outsourcing boundaries to others
(10:46) Personal story of boundary clarity
(12:58) Needs and values underneath boundaries
(17:56) What a boundary really means
(22:12) Requests Vs. Boundaries in real life
(27:14) Why boundaries change as we evolve
(31:48) Outro

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(Stay tuned for this coming Thursday’s episode!)