The Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When Eloping (And How to Avoid Them)

Elopements are supposed to feel free, simple, and magical—but without the right planning, they can turn into a rushed, stressful blur.

In this episode, I’m sharing the biggest mistakes I see couples make when they elope—and how to avoid them so you can create a day that feels like an intentional, unforgettable experience.

💔 Here’s what we’re diving into:
 ❌ Not planning a full day – Elopements aren’t just a ceremony. You deserve a full-day story, not just 30 minutes and a rushed photo session.
❌ Inviting too many guests – Even a handful of the wrong people can shift the energy. This is your day.
❌ Planning a party right after – Give yourself space. Planning two big emotional events at the same time = guaranteed overwhelm.
❌ Letting weather panic take over – Don’t change plans too early. Check the forecast no more than 24 hours before your elopement.
❌ Trying to get legally married abroad – Legal logistics in another country can be draining and complex. You don’t need that stress.
❌ Bonus mistakes you might not expect:
→ Forgetting to carve out time to just be
→ Trying to DIY the whole thing (and getting decision fatigue)
→ Hiring vendors who don’t specialize in elopements

Elopements should feel like a deep exhale, not a race. This episode is your guide to staying grounded and making choices that protect your joy.

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