Why do we fall so hard for fictional men?
Why do book boyfriends from romance and fantasy novels feel more real, more unforgettable, and sometimes more satisfying than actual relationships?
In this episode, we explore the psychology of attraction to fictional characters and why women, in particular, connect so deeply with the heroes of the stories they love.
From brooding enemies-to-lovers antiheroes to loyal protectors in fantasy worlds, fictional men are designed to embody emotional intensity, vulnerability, and devotion in ways that real life often struggles to match.
Audiobook narrators make that connection even stronger, bringing these characters to life with voices that feel intimate and personal, almost like a secret conversation meant only for you.
We’ll dive into why these love stories give us butterflies, how they reflect our desires and fantasies, and why it’s perfectly normal to grieve when a story ends and you have to “say goodbye” to the man who only existed on the page or in your headphones.
If you’ve ever finished a romance novel or audiobook and thought, I’ll never get over him, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone, and that sometimes, the loves we imagine can be just as powerful as the ones we live.